Question by Nick L: Am I texting this girl too much?
so i like this girl, she apparently used to like me. i heard this from one of her friends. she told me she doesn’t like me in a dating way. she said she wants to be just friends. i said okay. so is it bad that i text her almost everyday still after she told me we are just friends? she texts back but i always have to text her first. should i lay off texting her for a while and see if she brings me not texting her up or actually texts me first to see whats up? so pretty much what should i do? should i continue to text her almost everyday or just let her text me for once?
Best answer:
Answer by She Loves ME, wow.
When you text her wait for her answer. If she doesn’t text you back then let her go.
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Quit bothering her.
STOP TXTING HER! honestly, your are smothering her. she probably is just txting you back just to be nice. yea, stop txting her everyday. she thinks you are still obsessed with wanting to go out with her.
i hate when this guy kept messaging me on myspace everyweek when i didnt like him. so i can imagine her being annoyed of you txting her all the time
if u txt her to much she’ll get the impression taht your desperate nd u dnt want that so what i would do is lay of the txting for about a week nd a half, even though itll b hard just refrain. then after about a week nd a half call her, yes actually on the fone, call her it shows that u dnt find it awkard or nething so just b like heyy i havent tlked to u in a while wats up then take the convo from there, nd then if it goes really well nd isnt awkard b like ohh hey i heard of this cool restaurant would u wanna check it out with me. that way it doesnt sound like ur asking her out or nething. but make sure the convo isnt goin awkard b4 u ask her bc if it is it will sound like ur asking her out. let the convo flow nd make some jokes girls love that.
good luck hun