Question by Exio: College dating BETTER than high school dating?!?!?
I’ve never dated in high school…not even had a first kiss. Heck I didn’t even have good friends.
But I’m a good looking guy…I see no problem. I’ve gotten compliments, but I can’t seem to find the right girl.
I’m probably off to like the top colleges in America…like Cornell, Duke, Stanford, etc. Would dating be more common in college? I don’t want to die a virgin.
Best answer:
Answer by Sdsd
im a college girl and a lot of people here dont want to date they just want to hook up so dying a virgin wont be a problem but i dont know about the dating part!! most of the girls want to have aboyfriend though so if you want to have a girlfriend theres a good chance!
What do you think? Answer below!
your life never began who cares how it ends
Yes, it is easier to date in college than high school. People are generally more mature and focused on the future. If you find ways to stay social and don’t just lock yourself in your dorm all day, you will have no trouble finding a date.
You don’t want to die a virgin?
……… So you just want sex, eh? Well good luck. Start using your head and not your balls. Then women will find you more attractive.
I am personally turned off by guys who are not virgins. Why would I want a guy that has slept with other girl(s) and didn’t care enough to wait for the right, lasting relationship? That said, I would say college dating is more serious than in high school.
yes it’s more and very it’s really hard not to get a girl in college
yes u will get laid in college i mean even fat guys get laid (by “chubby chasers”)
but wats ur concern dating or f***in?
teen girls plz?
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yes! often, if you dont fit into a group in high school, girls wont want to date you. example – jock girls date the jock guys, goth girls date the goth guys, math club girls date math club guys… sometimes, youll find a trendy girl dating the bad boy. but, if you dont fit into a clique, youre not going to get any. in college, however, theres not so many cliques & girls are much more openminded to who they date & much more likely to ignore what their friends say & what the latest gossip is. just flirt. be up front if you like someone. make sure you appear approachable. if youre too shy or always looking down, a girls is much less likely to approach you. dont worry, you wont die a virgin.
college is for education, not for picking up chicks. you’ve got your whole life ahead of you and if you actually don’t waste your money and time getting crappy grades and actually succeed in school, you will have plenty of women to date.
I’m in college right now and there’s a double standard here.
some ppl look for serious relationships that is eventually led to marriage while others look for casual hookups ( sex).
yea college is full of party and sex basically.
it’s very tricky but if u are serious and down to earth, u will eventually meet a person who is as mature as u.
Dating is whatever you make it, like everything else in life brotha man.
I think you will find you are almost certainly not alone– and college is seriously different. There are none of the added pressures like you have in high school and whereas in high school where everybody knows everything and pries in your business when you are college people genuinely do not give a shit. Starting at college is a really big opportunity– it is a chance to start fresh completely. Don’t blow the opportunity you can literally become who ever you want to be — if you see a girl you like just ask her out, you have nothing to loose. And don’t let rejections get you down, not everybody can say yes. So no i do not think you will die a virgin- haha and besides you have the whole of summer before college, who knows what could happen. I wouldn’t worry about it- at all. (good choice of colleges btw.. !)
Don’t waste a second worrying about it mate. All you need to do is be nice to people, get involved with hobbies or sports, whatever it is that you’re into and give yourself the biggest social sphere you can. If you do the things you enjoy, you’ll meet like minded people. Including girls.
Being a virgin is only a big deal while it lasts, as soon as you’ve lost it you realise it had very little to do with who you are as a person. And whether you’ve slept with 1 or 100 people it’s the person that matters, not the number.
Anybody that has anything less than respect for you doesn’t deserve to be your first.
This is advice from a pretty normal girl at University who came on here in a desperate 2am bid to do some essay research, so I’m a pretty good source I reckon!
Good luck with it all. x