Question by Richard: how can i tell when to stop texting a girl? what do they really want to talk to me about?
ive been texting this potential GirlFriend of mine, and i think i just need to spend more time with her or something but i feel like im starting to bore her with my texts recently. how can i tell what she thinks or if i really am boring her. Can someone please help with how to text girls? thanks!
Answer by caelaa.
One word answers typically mean we are not interested.
Maybe you are in fact just boring her. Try changing things up. Don’t just put “hey, what’s up?” every time you talk to her or whatever. Ask her questions, go down to a down to earth level. I was completely about to blow things off with this guy. The night before we had talked about how I like a little mystery. He joked and said I sounded like a little Nancy Drew. He remembered that and texted me the next day saying “hey Nancy(:” It made me smile, kept me interested. It showed that he was actually paying attention to what i had to say and was real down to earth. The conversation wasn’t all about him or all about me. There was a balance. Questions and conversations we exchanged back and fourth. It was great. Never let things get dull. Try and make plans with her, show her that you’re NOT boring. Her response and actions should prove if she’s just not that into you. But hopefully, that won’t be the case(:
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