Question by Drewman: How do I ask a girl out over text?
Im in middle school. (8th Grade) I really like her, and I’m too scared to ask her out i person. What do I say in the text?
Best answer:
Answer by smilelycat
DONNN’TTTT ASK OVER TEXT!
What do you think? Answer below!
Man up
Whats the point, you date her, and youre afraid to see her?
Ask her out in person, lame brain.
dont do a text its tacky. Seriously ask her directly, especially if your in the 8th grade because if she turns you down its her word against yours that you asked but if you text and she ends up telling the whole school she has proof with the text. Just ask her and good luck.
you dont say anything in the text. I am far beyond 8th grade, way older. So i can tell you, you just have to suck it up and do it in person. It betters the chances of her sayin yes. The worst she can do is say no. If she does move on. But you never know until you try bud.
well you grow some balls and ask them in person if they wanna go out. if they say ok your good to go.
If you’re too scared to ask her out in person. You’re probably going to be too scared to be any good as a date.
Bite the bullet, get her alone at school, and ask her if she’d like to hang out with you.
If she says yes, you’re in. If she says no, it’s really no big deal. That’s just part of the game.
Asking through a text though, is kinda weak. Plus what if other people see the text?
Grow a pair and ask her face to face! Just be cool, ask her if she fancies a coffee sometime…. good luck!
You don’t.
tell her “can I meet you *someplace* in a few minutes? I want to ask you something”
Say: Hey, (girls name here), I like you alot, and I was wondering if you want to go out with me?
Seems pretty easy to me.
Trust me!!! she won’t say no in person.. Over a text or email, it’s easy to say no because your not face to face…
give her a flower or something, girls love that 
Simple you don’t. If you like this girl put some effort into it. Even though you are just an 8th grader and will have many girlfriends before you settle down. So just go up to her and ask her. The worst she can say is no. And if that happens just know it may not be the last. Everyone has to deal with rejection. And like I said this won’t mean the end of the world your still young and your love life is barely starting. Good luck!
You don’t. Guys who ask girls out over text are viewed as cowards and losers. Be a man
just ask her to her face.
DO NOT ASK HER OUT OVER TEXT! Cliche thing to say but its totally true. Its the worst way to ask her out. I would rather have a shy guy ask me out in person, even if you are nervous while doing it I think its cute. Don’t worry you will be fine. (: Good luck!
Give her a compliment and then tell her that you want to be more than friends! But if she says “No” don’t take it personal. Let her know that you are serious and that you really tried, write a poem or something like that.
anything is better than asking her out in a text!!!!!!!! i would NEVER say yes to someone who asked me out over text. thats sooooo disrespectful. you really should do it in person if you really want to go out with her. if you ask her over text the chance of her saying no is like a thousand times higher.
so, be brave and ask her in person.
Do NOT do that. Nope nope nope. Bad idea. Ive only had one of my boy friends ever ask me in a text, and I thought it was pretty pathetic. Even though we were standing right next to each other. I mean, sure it was cute, but its just so much memorable if you do it in person.
i’m in 8th grade too.
Like if you mean go out on a date just be like hey what sre you doing friday and if she says nothing then just say oh wanna hang out.
but if you mean boyfriend girlfriend then just be like
heyy (: her name so let’s say her name is kim be like
heyy(: kim,I have been thinking about you and I really like you more than just a friend,I know I should ask you in person but I cant wait any longer,will you go out with me.!?!?