Question by Odd Ball: How often should I text this girl I like?
Ok, so school started up last week and I met this girl thats in a couple of my classes (Im in high school) and we have been getting to know each other and I gave her my number and she texted me lasted night for a while. I really like her, she is really nice, but I am wondering on how often I should text her. I would also like to know some things I could text her hinting that I like her. I would like some answers from girls to, like do you like it if guys text you everyday, and what are some nice things to say to girls? I could really use some help. Thanks all answers are welcome
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Just text her at night, and ask her how her day was.
You will have more things to say that way.
Yes girls like it when you text every day. But if she does get annoyed, she probably won’t reply. If that happens then don’t text her as often. Try talking to her a lot in person and become friends that way.
Dontt be annoyingg. beee cute! likee putt smileyss, askk herr aboutt urrselff. tell herr shes cute! shelll love ittt
u shud txt her stuff lyk “good morning beautiful” or “sweet dreams” llil things lik tht! always ask how shes doin. show her tht u care! nd dnt blow up her fone! if she dsnt txt bak the first time… only send a maximum of 2 msgs at a time!!!!
personally i think it gets very annoying if a guy texts me everyday lol. does she like yu? text her and say good morning tell her yu liked the way she wore her hair today then when she texts back saying thankyou , say that yu think she is beatuiful and that yu enjoy talking to her . tell her she makes yu smile give her tht sexy look in the halls she’ll soon find out yu gotta crush .
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Text her in the morning when you wake up “good morning beautiful” is my favorite.
just text her and if she wants to talk then text but give her space and don’t pester her if she doesn’t reply. just getting to know her shows your interested.
see i don’t understand why people play games like this when they like someone. if you like someone, text them however often you want. it doesn’t matter if you text back in 1 minute or 5 minutes, you won’t look desperate. i can guarantee you she won’t even think about that. all she’ll be thinking about is how this guy texted her and seems real nice. just do what you want, and you can go from there. and even short answers from her, sometimes girls do that because they want to see if you’ll text them again. just do what you want to do. as for things to say, just be natural. do you know what she likes to do? does she like a team? does she like to go to school games? ask her if she wants to do something, like go to one of the games or to a movie if you both like movies. as long as its something fun, you guys will find something to talk about and it’ll be natural that way. good luck!
everyone is different but with the girl i like i used to text her everyday ( she goes to diff school ) but as we havent seen as eachother in awhile we dont text aas often its been almost a yr i stil like her and i txt her once a wk about just dont go too long without texting her
Text her too much and she might think your a pest. text her too little and she might think you do not care, the trick is to strike a balance, if you see her during the day at school then text her a couple of time a night to start with. Compliment her on how her hair looked that day, or what she was wearing, tell her you like to see her smile…get the idea?
test her and see if she responses back. if she liked you she will respond back or is just being nice then text her after a while and see if she still textes you. and if she liked you she will text you. but dont say this
hi
hiiii
hiiiiii
you theree
helloooo
(it REALLY bugs the girl)
A text is not a great way to communicate, keep it to the minimum.
Real conversations are so much better.
Once a day and vary the time, let her know you think about her.
at random times but not to much or shell think your a creep id rather a guy txt me not at a certain time of day
Good luck
god yes we lovee itt! just DONT BE CREEPy. be nice, but not tooo inviting… say goodmorning and ask about her day. flirt. if she flirts back go with your gut
every night to every other night. dont tell her you like her yet, cause for most girls once they know a guy likes them they are one to a new guy!
from my personal experiences i like it when a guy texts me every day. in the morning text her telling her good morning. after school text her asking how her day went. and if you text her at night tell her to have sweet dreams. if you want to know if she likes you just ask her and tell her how you feel about her. i used to live with a guy that worked offshore and (we used to talk about places in the world that we wanted to see) every night before we would go to sleep he would pick one of those places and tell me “i’ll see you in paris tonight” or where ever it was we wanted to see. and i would always fall asleep with a smile and wake up thinking of him.
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haha im not saing that it’s what you’re doing , i am just giving you the heads up ! and make sure when you talk , ask her about how her day went , or how she is , and don’t just talk about yourself . if they are nice messages , not serious ones then make sure to add a smiley face here and there
girls like that too . i think it shows you like them more
haha . and also mention that you think she’s pretty (don’t be creepy though) and the things you like about her . if she doesn’t know that you like her , i have a great way to find out if she likes you and to tell her you like her without making it toooo awkward in case she doesn’t like you back .
it sounds like you very much like this girl , so i’d say go for it !
yeahh girls like when you text everyday , but maybe once after school and that’s it , because hello ?! messages don’t just disappear ! she either wants to text you or doesn’t , and you can’t be too pushy !
here’s what you do :
when you guys are texting and you have run outta things to talk about , ask her if she wants to play a game . the game is where you each take turns asking eachother questions . let’s call it . . . . the question game
haha or whatever you wanna call it
start off with question not too personal like fav color , food , animal , movie , etc . then after a while ask her either who she likes , or if she likes anyone . then it should go on from there and hopefully you’ll find out if she does like you !
i hope it works , cause’ it always works for meee !
good luck , and i hope everything works out for you !
Every 3-4 days.