Alot of girls wonder “how to get a guy to like you“. I’ve been asked this by a bunch of my friends and my advice has worked out pretty well so I thought I’d share it with you. I’ve had my share of dating experience. I’ve had some girls that guys would consider “a perfect 10″ and I’ve had some “not so perfect 10s” and let me tell you, the novelty of extreme beauty eventually wears off. Any guy who’s worth having knows that when liking a girl it’s much more important to like a GIRL, and not just like how a girl looks. So ladies, here’s a few tips on how to get guys to like you:
How to get a guy to like you:
- Let him know you’re single
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- Have a sense of humor
- Show that you can be “his friend”
- Share your interests with one another
- Be Yourself
1. Let him know you’re single
How do you get a guy to like you? You let him know you’re available! Many guys are worried that when they meet a girl they’re interested in, she’s potentially already taken. You don’t need to outright tell him that you’re single, just make sure he doesn’t think that you have a boyfriend.
2. Show some confidence and get his attention
Once he’s aware of your availability, you need to do some work too. Guys are just as insecure as girls and if they do all the effort without reciprocation, they might not think you’re interested. Take some initiative and get him to notice you. Put yourself out there and take a chance. Make the first effort and say hi or send the first text during the day. Doing that will show him you’re used to getting what you want and it will make him wonder what makes you so confident and what it is he’s missing out on.
3. Have a sense of humor
It is essential to make sure he knows you can have a good laugh. Laughing is fun, shows comfort with the person, and most impotantly releases tension. Those are all very good things if you want to get guys to like you. No one wants to be super serious at all times. Relax, enjoy yourself, be silly, and let loose.
4. Show that you can be “his friend”
Don’t be super intense and scare him off. A guy wants a girl that he can just hang out with. Someone who he can be as comfortable with as he is with his friends. And what’s the best way to do that? Be one of his friends. Make sure not to do this for too long as you want to avoid slipping in to the dreaded “friend zone”, but for just long enough that he notices how well you get along.
5. Share your interests with one another
If you don’t have things in common right away, see if you can find some. Show him the things you like and let him show you the things that he likes. Sharing with each other will bring you closer together and who knows, maybe you’ll find that through a different perspective, certain things might be better than you imagined.
6. Be yourself
Most importantly, and I know this is cliche but it’s true, just be yourself. You’re not worried about how to get a guy to like you, you’re worried about how to get YOUR guy to like you. If you want someone to like you for you, you must be you at all times. If they don’t, then they’re not the right person. There’s someone out there for everyone and if you stay true to yourself, you won’t miss out on that opportunity to find your right guy.
So how do you get guys to like you? Just relax and be yourself. Be honest and confident. Let him know you’re single. You’ll have them lining up and fighting over you in no time!
I hope you enjoyed my post about how to get a guy to like you.