Do you remember a time when you really wish you knew how to make a girl happy?
Imagine how incredible it would be if the girl you really like was so happy every time she thinks about you, sees you, and talks to you. So happy that she couldn’t help but think of you when you are not around because she misses how nice it feels.
Knowing how to make a girl happy is by far the most valuable skill for starting and maintaining healthy rewarding relationships. It is ridiculous how powerful knowing how to make a girl happy really is. Not only is this essential if you actually care about the girl you want to get to like you, it is also one of the most commonly misunderstood aspects of relationships.
The beautiful thing about knowing how to keep your girl happy is that when she is happy and loving, you will feel so good that you will keep being happy and loving. It’s a vicious cycle of happiness and satisfaction that I hope you are prepared to handle.
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Note: Love is used to mean positive emotion for, if you just like her then show her you like her rather than thinking you need to all out love her. Adjust intensity of meaning for level of relationship comfort.
How to make a girl happy:
- Learn how to make a girl laugh.
- Know how to be playful and cute.
- Learn to read her body language to tell what her mood is or see if she is interested.
- Learn how to have interesting conversations and tell stories well.
- Talk to her about your life, get to know her and share secrets.
- Flirt with her to build romantic interest.
- Tell her how she really makes you feel.
- Take pictures together and be proud of her. Do not treat her like she is lucky to be with you but also do not put her on a pedestal.
- Make sure you are not ashamed of her and stand up for her when appropriate.
- Be a gentleman by making her feel protected and safe with you.
- Make a good impression on her friends and family.
- Include her in your plans and treat her the same way with other people as you would alone.
- Be able to tell when something is wrong and to ask about it. If she denies there being anything wrong but it seems like there is don’t keep asking she just doesn’t want to talk about it right now. Give her a hug, tell her stories or make her laugh and do what you can to get her into a better mood.
- Don’t lie to her.
- Don’t cheat on her.
- Be honest and open with her.
- Make sure to be on her mind and show her she is on yours. Master this by learning how to text a girl you like.
- Hold her closely like you never want to let her go, let her rest her head on you during a movie, and hold hands if she is into it.
- Call her to say goodnight or talk about your day.
- Touch her casually when appropriate.
- Be passionate and romantic with her.
- Genuinely cuddle her and hold her lovingly. Hug her from behind to show you care.
- Make her feel like you will be there any time she needs you and even when she doesn’t.
- Tell her you love her when you really mean it.
- Surprise her with love when she doesn’t expect it.
- Always make her feel loved and truly appreciated.
Love her like there is no one else you’d rather be with, like there is nowhere else you would rather be, and like nothing in the world could distract you from your time together. It is very important to be genuine to effortlessly how to make a girl happy. When you know how to appreciate someone or something in a way without needing to or wanting to just to get some kind of response you will genuinely know how to make a girl happy. Focusing on having positive experiences together and putting each other in great moods is an incredibly powerful way to make a girl happy.
Girls leave a comment saying what rings true for you and what needs to be added or changed
Guys leave a comment if you feel like this helped at all, parts you like, things to add.
Thank you for reading this post about how to make a girl happy.
HOW TO MAKE A MAN HAPPY:
1. SUCK HIS DICK.
2. DON’T COMPLAIN ALOT
3. #1 X MORE
4. DON’T CHEAT.
5. SMILE
Great list- I feel like that’d be pretty overwhelming for most guys to follow though.
You’re either a good guy or your not. It’s all in how you view a woman
1. A lot of guys are only capable of making her laugh at him… not with him.
2. Most guys look stupid when they try.
3. If most guys could do this, you wouldn’t need this list.
4. Again, not everyone is capable.
5. What if your life is generally pathetic, dirty, and boring?
6. Heh, once again… not all guys have the capability.
7. To sound like a whiny feely little b*tch? Or just that we want sex?
8. See #7. Make up your mind. Or go find that guy that lets you have your cake and eat it too.
9. Easy and not a problem. Just don’t expect him to stand up for you when you are wrong.
10. You are extremely safe when with a guy that normally has girl problems. He will fight to the death for you.
11. I am good people, they are good people, there should be no problem.
12. Alone time is good and healthy too.
13. This completely flies in the face of what most guys see as logical. Good luck developing this talent. Or learn to walk a tightrope.
14. Don’t lie to me.
15. Don’t cheat on me.
16. Same to ya.
17. Who teaches stuff like this? Sounds damn near impossible.
18. Not a problem, but its a balancing act between tenderness and clingy-ness.
19. Okay.
20. … but don’t overdo it?
21. Back to the stuff most guys can’t do, or need years of training to master.
22. Just make sure she isn’t holding a weapon.
23. CLING…. EEEEEE!!!!!!
24. What if you don’t understand what love is or is supposed to be? Girls think they know this but most of them really don’t.
25. And FEEL the denial when you fail.
26. Right back at ya.
Sincerely,
A guy that would be an excellent boyfriend if he wasn’t so busy being self conscious about his image and fearing rejection.
Sadly, this is the biggest load of crap out there. No women actually want guys like this. They want guys who are arrogant jackasses. Period. I know all too many guys who fell into the trap of being “the nice guy”. Gets you no place but the friend zone. Well, that and used by countless women who would just as soon love you as cut your throat. To all the guys out there, follow the advice here at your own risk.
@ a normal guy
Great responses to each point. This list is one that assumes you understand when each of these things are appropriate and with what intensity. Eg 23 is clingy and a bad idea earlier in the relationship and can come off as obsessive. In a longer more serious relationship this would be just fine. The main point is not to be overly available but to learn how to tell what actually really matters and if its appropriate to support her without being the “nice guy”. Eg a girl you met recently is having trouble with her homework, you don’t just start offering to help fix her problem you talk with her and find out if she really just wanted to vent about it to calm down and focus. If she ends up asking for help and it is a reasonable task to help with, considering her current level of interest in you, you can be there for her by then helping her out.
Unfortunately this kind of list almost requires you know what your doing in order to judge what you can do to make her happy and not freak her out or just fail.
Breakdowns like yours help people see different takes on the difficulty and usefulness of each point. Someone who is like minded may agree with some similar points and have a better ability to pick out the points most useful to work on for them.
That’s a huge list, i guess every guy who’s reading this will be having at least one idea on how to make his girl happy.
These are actually some really good tips!
These aren’t actually secrets, are they. This is all pretty well understood stuff. And a normal guy, god bless your honesty. I laughed, I cried, I died a little inside. That being said, wouldn’t it be easier to sum all this up by just saying, get to know the girl? Everyone is unique, guys and girls (pause for comments and name calling), so it would honestly just be best to take time to get the know the person, their likes dislikes, perfections and flaws, anything and everything you can. And it’s pretty easy to do if you sincerely go into a situation or conversation with your head and/or heart rather than your dick. So in guy terms: every lock has a combo, but every lock has a different combo. learn the one that suits you best and chances are, you’ll both be pretty effing happy.
@ Oh Herro
Love your comment. I especially enjoyed the “(pause for comments and name calling)” line. You hit the nail right on the head with your take on how to make a girl happy. The best advice really is to be sincere and do what you can to learn about and understand just what it takes for each particular person to be happy. Unfortunately it is difficult to learn from just read about something as simple and complicated as making a girl happy. To me this list is to help give ideas of how to approach learning how to make a girl happy.
It is important to remember that this list should be adjusted for the intensity of the relationship too. For example telling a girl you love her when you have never talked to her before is probably going to scare her away in a second. While you could playfully say something like “You know what, I don’t think I’ve had so much fun beating such a pretty girl at miniput before” to a girl you are on a date with.
Oh without a doubt, never put more of yourself into something without expecting or accepting the outcome. I guess my comment sounded more like a female anatomy with ties to a cat looking for a relationship (to guys) or a kiss ass gay best friend (to girls). I just take a strong stand (here comes the kitty again) that assholes need to have their dicks removed. Women like sex too, which is why there’s no need to push for it. When I say look for that combo that suits you best, I mean go for anything: relationship, sex, friendship, w/e you please, just go about it the right way. Sure looking at women as a whole is an impossible task, even for the world’s most interesting man (copyright Dos Equis), but to taking the time to learn an individual is both easy and fun, as long as you don’t despise the person. I’m not an equation, so I’ll never get math, but I am a person, so there’s no reason I can’t understand people, and that rule applies to everyone.
@ a normal guy
Your response is incredibly satirical, and I love it!
You have number one down. <3
Wonderful tips. Keep up the work.
Awesome read dude, please post more. Girls are definately different to guys when it comes to making them happy, but it’s easily possible.
Thanks