Are you having difficulties with learning how to text a girl you like? Then you will find this post to be a great help. Learning about and becoming aware of this principle has really helped many guys develop a greater understanding of what not to text a girl. Guys and girls naturally communicate in slightly different ways. The guys tend to more often communicate in a logical style. While girls more often communicate in a more feelings oriented style. This huge texting mistake is using too much logic in your texts.
How to Text a Girl You Like –Don’t Use Too Much Logic
Of all the other common texting mistakes, using too much logic has always caused me the most trouble. Starting out it was a big handicap on my texting game. During times when responses have not been as good as I wanted I would realize that I had been too logical in some of my texts. Being careful not to use too much logic is absolutely essential to mastering how to text a girl.
Goal: Don’t bore her with bland logical texts
Define: Logical conversations are ones that try to satisfy a goal through a boring step by step path to the solution. So the examples include: boring openers; questions that you always hear over and over; as well as overly logical attempts to set up a date.
Examples of too much logic and alternatives:
1. You – “hey, how’s it going?”
This is an example of a boring opener. Logically you are starting a conversation but you leave out any extra pull to get her to respond.
Better alternative: You – “You wouldn’t believe what you missed in class today!”
Why is it better? It uses an air of mystery in a way that involves her and draws her into the conversation. You start by providing emotional value almost in a teasing way. This will surely grab her attention much more effectively than the overly used “hey, how’s it going”.
2. Her – “I went for a scenic walk today” You – “oh that’s cool, what did you see?”
This is an example of a bland question that doesn’t add much to the interaction. The question is a logical response to her statement but is not optimized with the goal of attraction in mind.
Better alternative: Her – “I went for a scenic walk today” You – “rawr, I like adventurous girls ”
Why is it better? It avoids asking a generic question and gives an implied compliment by qualifying her. By saying you like adventurous girls you imply she is adventurous and that you like her. From here you may have the option to tease her if she points out or questions you liking her (eg “I’d hardly call a scenic walk adventurous , its cute that you thought I like you though”).
3. You – “Want to go to the movies tonight?” Her – “yes!” You – “What do you want to see?” Her – “you choose ” You – “I chose last time, you choose” …
This is an example of the guy lowering his status by so coldly explaining the logical reasons why she should pick the movie after he was in a good position after she said “yes!”.
Better alternative: You – “I was thinking of taking this girl I like to the movies, she’s just like you, do you think she would want to watch (movie a) or (movie b)?”
Why is it better? Throughout the whole message you imply that the girl you are taking out is going to say yes and go with it. You leave hint at saying you like her because you are asking her a question about what you want to do with this girl you like. However you still leave space to tease her with that as well as if she declines you can play off the situation much better by just saying its too bad she couldn’t help you out with your plans for your date.
4. You – “are you busy on Friday?” Her – “not really” You – “would you like to have lunch with me?” Her – “actually I’m too busy for Friday” You – “what about Saturday for lunch?” …
This is an example of a guy who is lowering his value by trying to logically find and schedule a meet up with a girl rather than someone who knows how to ask a girl to hang out.
Better alternative: You – “I am eating at subway today around noon you should drop by, maybe you’ll run into me if you’re lucky ”
You do not ask her to do anything but you do invite her indirectly. After a response or two you should know if she will show up or not. She will be more likely to say yes and meet up with you giving you a good chance to build attraction if you ask her in a way that she will be less defensive about.
These are a few examples of texts using too much logic and some better alternatives for better results. I hope this post will help you on your way to mastering how to text a girl you like.
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