It is all too often that people ask how to text a girl you like for the first time so what better way to answer this question than by going straight to the source.
Here is an interesting style of post that you might enjoy. A fan and friend of ditto effect who keeps in touch was having a chat with me so I thought why not let our conversation be a post. Asking a girl how she would like to be texted for the first time seemed like a great way to get a good answer. Even cooler than that this will let you see the flow of our conversation and exactly how she answered the question too.
How to Text a Girl You Like for the First Time
- Be funny
- Hold a conversation
- Be interesting and different
- Don’t just keep complimenting
[4:46:10 AM] Adam C: Ok so I’m trying to write content for “how to text a girl you like” and adding on the conditions of say something like: “for the first time” or to say “goodnight” or if they are “in middle school” for example.
[4:46:32 AM] Adam C: 
[4:46:39 AM] Olivia S: Oh
[4:46:45 AM] Olivia S: I getcha
[4:46:47 AM] Adam C: 
[4:46:54 AM] Olivia S: So ask questions and I’ll answer
[4:47:28 AM] Adam C: So if a guy was going to text you for a first time what would you want him to text?
[4:47:46 AM] Adam C: Lets play with it
[4:48:45 AM] Olivia S: Well where have i met him?
[4:48:55 AM] Olivia S: I wouldn’t want him to hit on me
[4:49:04 AM] Olivia S: But I’d want him to be friendly and funny
[5:19:30 AM] Adam C: Ok so what would you want a guy to text you for the first time? if he likes you
[5:19:46 AM] Olivia S: If he likes me
[5:19:58 AM] Olivia S: Hmm probably something with a smiley face
[5:20:07 AM] Olivia S: Haha as weird as it sounds
[5:20:18 AM] Olivia S: Smiley faces makes everything less serious
[5:23:34 AM] Adam C: What would be a good first text to you?
[5:24:16 AM] Adam C: For a first text and the guy already likes you
[5:24:49 AM] Adam C: Pretend you are a guy who would send you a text
[5:25:03 AM] Olivia S: Okay what would you send me
[5:25:12 AM] Olivia S: If I were a guy
[5:25:29 AM] Olivia S: I’d probably send something like hey you
[5:25:38 AM] Olivia S: Or something simple
[5:25:40 AM] Olivia S: Hello
[5:25:44 AM] Olivia S: Just smiley faces
[5:26:00 AM] Adam C: If you were a guy I’d say dude what did you do with Olivia I want to talk to her!
[5:26:09 AM] Adam C:
[5:26:42 AM] Adam C: Hey you is good
[5:26:44 AM] Adam C: I like that
[5:26:47 AM] Adam C: Hey you
[5:29:43 AM] Adam C: I want to use this as a post
[5:29:47 AM] Adam C: Is that ok?
[5:29:56 AM] Adam C: lol
[5:30:55 AM] Olivia S: Haha
[5:31:00 AM] Olivia S: Yeah that’s fine
[5:31:03 AM] Olivia S: I like it
[5:31:18 AM] Olivia S: I think it kinda suggests something
[5:31:45 AM] Olivia S: Then if she’s not interested the chick can reply in a simple way that won’t hurt any feelings
[5:32:03 AM] Olivia S: My word look at this dancing!
[5:32:07 AM] Olivia S: http://www.wimp.com/dubstepdance/
[5:32:39 AM] Adam C: I’m liking this Olivia
[5:32:58 AM] Adam C: I’m going to make our convo a post
[5:33:40 AM] Adam C: So tell me all the things you would like a guy to text you in a first text if he likes you already
[5:33:41 AM] Adam C:
[5:33:56 AM] Adam C: This is going to become famous
[5:34:08 AM] Adam C: Our convo right now will define future generations
[5:35:27 AM] Adam C: Dubstep is too cool
[5:35:32 AM] Adam C: That’s how I move 
[5:36:10 AM] Olivia S: That’d be an interesting spin
[5:36:35 AM] Olivia S: Well
[5:36:47 AM] Olivia S: I wouldn’t want him to keep complimenting me and that jazz
[5:37:01 AM] Olivia S: Because I wouldn’t know how to respond to that
[5:37:12 AM] Olivia S: I would want him to be funny
[5:37:20 AM] Olivia S: And keep up general conversation
[5:37:25 AM] Olivia S: Talk about interesting things
[5:37:33 AM] Olivia S: Not just the general stuff
[5:37:39 AM] Olivia S: Like which school are you at
[5:37:40 AM] Olivia S: Or what are you doing etc
[5:38:24 AM] Adam C: What interests you?
[5:38:37 AM] Adam C: I like this dance
[5:38:52 AM] Adam C: I want to create and spread things like this
[5:39:06 AM] Adam C: I really like this!
[5:39:23 AM] Adam C: Where did you find this?
[5:39:45 AM] Adam C: Oh stumble~
[5:40:25 AM] Olivia S: Stumble 
[5:40:29 AM] Adam C: I once wrote a post called: “float like a butterfly. stumbleupon like a bee”
[5:40:40 AM] Olivia S: Well change interests me
[5:40:42 AM] Olivia S: Random topics
[5:40:50 AM] Olivia S: That people wouldn’t normally talk about
[5:41:02 AM] Olivia S: Nice pun
[5:41:05 AM] Adam C: Hah
[5:41:25 AM] Adam C: Change?
[5:41:27 AM] Adam C: I like change
[5:41:33 AM] Adam C: I am the professor of change
[5:41:38 AM] Adam C: A guider
[5:41:41 AM] Adam C: The visionary
[5:41:45 AM] Adam C: Me and you right now
[5:41:50 AM] Adam C: Are guiding change
[5:42:32 AM] Adam C: I don’t keep any bills in my wallet all I’ve got is change
[5:43:03 AM] Adam C: Ask me what I’ve got and I’ll tell I’ve got change
[5:43:06 AM] Olivia S: Haha
[5:43:10 AM] Olivia S: Someones excited
[5:43:13 AM] Olivia S: I just like change
[5:43:16 AM] Olivia S: Because…
[5:43:30 AM] Olivia S: Well why stick with the same thing your whole life?
[5:43:30 AM] Olivia S: EXPERIENCE!
If you want to know how to text a girl you like for the first time just ask a girl and listen! Good pointers to look out for in this conversation. She said he should be funny. To keep up the conversation. To talk about things that are interesting and different.
She said she wouldn’t want a guy to keep complimenting her because she wouldn’t know how to respond. She didn’t say not to compliment her but not to keep doing it in a way that would impact the flow of the conversation.
There you have it. Change! Experience! New! Exciting! Interesting!
Just like this post try and keep things interesting and different to really get her attention when you text a girl you like for the first time.
How do you like to text a girl you like for the first time?
Let us know what you think in a comment down below!
Excellent pointers! Lol…I hope my ex will text me now.
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