Question by Vanessa Marie: I keep texting him but he doesn’t seem interested.
I really really like this guy so I want to know how to flirt over text. In person, he flirst with me so much, in texts, he doesn’t seem to give a crap. His texts even used to be so nice and flirty, and when he found out I liked him, he kept asking me to hang out and stuff. Now he has a girlfriend, he doesn’t like her, he is just dating her for fun. He still flirts with me in person, but not through texts at all. What should I do? Moving on isn’t an option for me at the moment. Like should I just talk to him in person? I always text him first so should I not text him for like a week and leave him hanging and stuff? Please answer, I think him and his girlfriend are broken up now. How do I flirt with him without being creepy? I really like him, please help me! What makes a guy curious about a girl?
How can I prevent myself from texting him? I tell myself not too, and I just end up doing it anyway. Should I talk to him on facebook? Or just leave it all in person for a week or two? We don’t have a class together, but we are in the same sports program and we see each other on the bus and stuff and after school and in the halls.
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Answer by Ran
the guy you like is playing with his GF? dude that is just sick RIGHT THERE!
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Yeah don’t text him that much, it’s better to play hard to get – make him chase you.
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hmm… i kinda had the same problem. i mean i was interested in this guy, but i didn’t know he was interested in me as well! and well, i was usually the first one to text him. but he would like reply and stuff. but it was always him who ended the conversations and me who started them. so then i just stopped texting him. i was like whatever! so i was basically sort of giving up. but then one day, he texts me! so i didn’t text him back. because i was still kinda upset. but then he texted me again and again and again! once like everyday, saying hi. and one day, i replied. so we were talking. and i was the one who kept asking the questions and starting the conversations. so i got really sick of it and told him i had to go. so he was like, why do you have to go? so i told him the truth. that it was really annoying how i was the one who started the conversations all the time and how he just ended it so quickly all the time. so he was like, sorry. and he started asking me all the questions.
so my point is, kinda play hard to get! like don’t reply his texts or don’t text him! but don’t like shun or ignore him at school or when you see him in person. then he might think that you don’t like him at all and he might move on. but pull back a little. and if he’ sinterested in you, he’ll text you.
AWW that’s cute, but to be honest you need to play that reverse physcology game on him !
DO NOT text him or talk to him for about a week or so! You need to let him know that you aren’t as interested in him as you really are until you both are actually dating and stuff. He has to come to you and if that doesn’t happen then that’s when you tell him how you feel. And if you really feel obligated to make the move then go ahead and take control =)
try to lay off the txting HIM for a while, see if he starts txt you on his own.
dont text him alot anymore. because he would want u more
I personally wouldn’t stick with the guy.. If he doesn’t seem interested in text, but likes to flirt with you, and if he is just playing with his girl right now whats to say that he won’t do the same to you? Or matter fact, hasn’t already done with you? I wouldn’t pay this guy much mind, unless you just want to play as well..
He’s obviously in love with you. I think you should skip the flirting, and ask him to dump his girlfriend. Just see how things play out… Good luck!
he has a girlfriend
leave it alone
while he’s doing this to her
he’ll do the same to you
Wow so you just answer my question and this is like the same thing for me.
The Guy flirts (well used to) in person but barely talks when we text so i think im done texting me and maybe you should do the same. but guys are jerks, even the ones you may really like
nah you just seem stalkerish him an hs gf are probably havin a right laugh at you
i know you said you dont want to move on. but he doesnt seem like very good guy. if he’s dating a girl he doesnt like and he flirts with you. think about wat he’ll do if u were his girlfriend