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If you are having trouble getting girls to text you back then this post is just what you’re looking for. One of the most powerful principles you will ever learn for interacting with people and mastering how to text a girl you like is the concept of high response value. This is by far the biggest common texting mistake guys make. The concept of high response value is rarely taught in a direct enough way to allow people to use it practically. I am going to teach you the secret power of high response value; when you remember how you lived before you will be baffled as to why you never used this simple principle.

How to text a girl you like – How to Get Her to Text Back

Does she wait hours before responding? Or worse, when you text her does she not even respond? Have you ever wished she was super responsive to you? Have you ever wanted to be the kinda guy that she just craves your next response? Understanding and applying the concept of high response value will evolve your texting game to a whole new level. You may be wondering what exactly is high response value? When you are texting or talking with someone the message’s response value is its ability to get you to respond. There has likely been a time when you have gotten a text you had no idea how to respond to or just didn’t even feel like responding to so you ignored it. Likewise there have been texts you couldn’t ignore if you wanted to. We are going to look at what factors are involved in getting her to text back.

The great thing about understanding this concept is that not only will you have a much higher ability to get her to be responsive to you but you will also become aware of the low response value aspects of your texts and be able to reduce them after a little practice. This also benefits both of you by creating more exciting interactions.

Here are a few things to pay attention to as you learn about the factors involved in response value:

Emotional value – anything that a person enjoys that is emotionally stimulating.

High emotional value example – say you met a girl last night and got her number the next day you could send a fun and flirty text like “I met this really dorky girl last night, she was kinda cute though” obviously refering to her while being indirect aswell.

Low emotional value example – “hey whats up?” or “hey we met last night, did you have fun?”, both of these provide little emotional value. If she already likes you she may respond but otherwise you will likely just come off as just some guy she met.

High Response Value Basics:

• send texts with high emotional value
• avoid sending texts that have low emotional value – do you want to talk to someone who just responds with low value texts like “lol” to all of your texts? I know I don’t, she won’t either.
• after giving emotional value you can guide the conversation by doing a take away or asking a question.
• You do not have to follow with a take away or question but it helps balance the conversation and keep her wondering if she has won you over.
• note: a take away is when you show disinterest (often used right before or right after providing value). ex classic high value push and pull “your cute, its too bad you can’t cook!”
• 1. provide emotional value 2. (optional) take away or question repeat
• If she provides more emotional value than you, you follow up by providing even more than her.
• Lead the conversation and build intense attraction by always saying the highest emotional value text last. (its ok to let her end witht he highest emotional value text last sometimes ie don’t go crazy over the odd few here and there)
• When you have built up value use take aways and questions to balance to conversation.

Combos and Chaining – keep up the conversation by doing one of 3 things:

Furthering the topic:  Her – “i love to watch horror movies” (her providing value) You – “oh me too! my favorite is toy story ” (you provide value, setting up for a joke) Her – “that’s a kids movie not a horror!” (her providing value by playing into the joke) You – “those toys are alive! its scary ” (you provide value with your funny joke!) Her – “you are ridiculous” (she provides value but not more value than you have provided so you still maintain the lead)

Coming up with a related topic: Her – “and I would name my puppy Ralph!” you start a new topic with “that reminds me of my crazy uncle Ralph, one time he and I…”

Start an entirely new topic: (preferably one that you know already provides lots of value) Her – “yep so that was good” (not much value or content to respond to) You – “You wouldn’t believe what my crazy uncle Ralph and i did the other day…”

The main goal here is to avoid those normal go no where attraction killing conversations. Instead by following this basic idea you will be building incredible attraction. Since there is so much to cover on this topic there will be later posts to expand on these ideas but for now this lays a great foundation for getting her to respond to you more often and with better results.

As always play around with these ideas and become aware of how you respond to her and how she responds to you.

Have fun learning how to get her to be super responsive to you while building intense attraction.

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Those who do exceptionally well with creating attraction truly know how to get a girl’s attention. If you want to know how to text a girl you like then you will really benefit by avoiding the common texting mistake of not including the girl in your responses. Many guys make the really simple mistake of not relating with and involving the girl in their communication. Get to know her, find out what you have in common and involve her. I am going to show you how to get a girl’s attention.

How to Text a Girl You Like – How to Get a Girl’s Attention

Have you ever talked to a girl and you didn’t know what to say? Have you ever tried talking to a girl but couldn’t hold her attention? Do you find yourself telling stories or talking about things that just don’t seem to relate to the girl even if they are good stories or topics of conversation? Even being an interesting person doesn’t guarantee that you will be able to hold her attention or even create attraction. There have likely been times when you have talked to someone who was not appealing to you at all until you found out you had some really awesome thing in common. You have likely experienced a time when even if there was someone who at first you paid little attention to until she started talking about you or showing genuine interest in what you are about. It is not just about having a person’s focus or being interesting, it is about having the person really want to give you their attention and to appeal to their interest. I am going to help you learn the best way to get a girl’s attention so you can keep her interested in you.

How to Get a Girl’s Attention:

• First create attraction and build rapport by being fun, confident, and displaying high value traits.
• As you talk make sure to search for and pay attention to common interests, beliefs, and favorite activities.
• When you find highly relevant topics that you both love then you can both show genuine interest and start creating an intense bond with each other through the topic you already love.
• Do not pretend to be into something she is into.
• Does she respond well to the topic of discussion?
• If you love video games and can talk about video games all day but she doesn’t find that appealing then save those conversations for your friends who do enjoy it.
• You don’t have to pretend you are not interested in those things but if it is obvious there are better topics of conversation then you may want to find them.
• It is important to get to know her and to involve her in your responses.

Keep in mind that you want to evoke emotion and inspire good feelings in her that she will relate to you.

Involve her in your responses:

• While the above is not necessary to apply the idea of involving her in your response, combining these two ideas will give you powerful results.
• It really helps give you response value when your message has to do with her.
• Consider this example: You: “can you cook?” Her: “I make the best kraft dinner ever!”
• What are some possible responses?
• 1. You:  “… that’s not cooking”
• 2. You:  “I love kraft dinner”
• 3. You:  “I’m so good at making KD”
• 4. You: “There is no way your KD is better than mine! ”
• Response 1 could be involving her but probably not in a good way since it may come off as looking down on a skill she is enthusiastic about.
• Response 1 could be playful if you send the message in the right way possibly saying something like “Oh, I didn’t mean read words on a box, I meant actually cook ” more along the lines of playful teasing rather than criticizing.
• Response 2 and 3 do not involve her.
• They also don’t provide much response value.
• Response 4 is about the same as response 3 except that it now involves her in the context of your text.
• You challenge her in a playful way that can also imply response 2 showing your shared enthusiasm for KD.
• This is likely to have huge response value because she is now very involved in the response.
• This particular example also shows how the above idea of finding common ground can create a lot of enthusiasm and fun with a topic that may not be so exciting to just any two people.

The absolute best way to get a girl’s attention is to find what she really responds to with good feelings and genuinely combine that with you. When you get more practice with being aware of these kinds of principles in your interactions you will gain much more power over the results you will be getting. Master how to get a girl’s attention and you will be well on your way to mastering how to text a girl you like.

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If you are still having trouble with mastering how to text a girl you like then you will enjoy the powerful principle I am going to share with you in this post. Don’t avoid asking a girl to do things with you. You want to spend time with her and you want her to want to spend time with you so I am going to share with you a simple yet powerful way to help boost your game. To some this common texting mistake is very obvious; to others they may have not seen it quite the same way. In this post I am going to show you how to ask a girl out.

How to Text a Girl You Like – How to Ask a Girl to Hang Out

Have you ever really wanted to ask a girl out or hang out with a girl you like but you were really nervous even if you did manage to end up asking a girl to hang out? Have you felt bad after asking a girl out and she said no? Have you ever wished you knew how to ask a girl to hang out in a way that would be easy and effective? I am going to show you how to ask a girl out without asking her out. While it is not necessary to do this when asking a girl to hang out I’m sure you will find it to be a great stepping stone towards mastering attraction and getting the results you are looking for.

How to Ask a Girl Out Without Asking Her Out

• Tell her what you are doing and suggest or imply she should come along too.
• “I’m going to the mall to buy a few things; I wish some stylish girl would help me pick out a shirt I never know what to wear!”
• This strategy works very well if you know anything you both have in common.
• “:O you love sushi too?! Do you know any good places in the area?”
• “Wait! You haven’t seen inception yet?! Ok on Thursday I will let you take me so you don’t end up watching it alone ”
• Be confident and make it fun.
• Choose something you both will want to do.
• You tell her what you are doing to show her that you are not relying on her response to affect your decision in anyway.
• By suggesting or implying she come along too you create an invitation without there being the feel of you wanting her so bad.
• Keep in mind that being direct can work well if she is already interested but more often than not she may know little about you and require more information before being direct is a good option.
• To better understand why this is so powerful let’s look at how not to ask someone out.

How Not to Ask Someone Out

• “I was wondering if you are free someday this week if you would like to go on a date?”
• “I would like to get to know you better, let me take you out for dinner.”
• While these approaches are direct and innocent they can create undesired effects.
• Firstly asking a girl “out” or on a “date” can frame the situation as more serious than one person or the other may want it to be.
• While you do not want to make it too casual so that creating attraction is impossible you also do not want it to be too formal that it could scare the other person.
• By hanging out and doing fun things you will have many opportunities to build attraction before getting to a point where you would need to put more formal labels on the situation.
• Believe it or not, the wording actually does matter even if the meaning doesn’t really change. Asking a girl on a date could just be casual but using the word date makes it more formal and potentially scary.
• These kinds of approaches can make it much more obvious that you care about her response and when she can sense neediness there will be some loss of attraction.
• A direct proposition is much more inviting to give the answer “no” whereas the first strategy even if she does not hang out will be much softer since you aren’t going to change much of what you were going to do regardless of her response.

I hope these pointers have given you a good idea of the subtle differences in communication choices that can be used to build intense attraction instead of making sure attraction will not happen. Play around with these tips and see how it affects your understanding of how to ask someone out by text. Learning how to ask a girl to hang out will really help avoid the common texting mistake of not asking her to do things with you.

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Understanding and learning how to direct a conversation is essential in mastering how to text a girl you like. This common texting mistake is huge. So many guys make this mistake simply because guys communicate in a logical manner and girls are naturally information gatherers. You may find yourself doing this even when you know better. This can be quite difficult to overcome. You will just have to be aware of it and that you are giving up power in the conversation by letting her lead the flow and responding to everything she says.

How to text a girl you like – Don’t Let Her Lead You

Have you ever noticed that people love to answer questions? Have you ever noticed that people will respond with the most relevant information to their experience when they are interacted with? Do you remember a conversation with a friend where what they said seemed so random in the conversation you were having? The mind is very goal directed. It is very question-answer based. More often than not if someone was to ask “what does a tree look like?” you will imagine a tree. The tree you picture in your mind may be different from person to person but it will be relevant to you and your memory. Hopefully my example has worked and we can now play with the idea that people are driven to answer questions.

How will this fact help you build attraction? Once you are aware of this you can start to shape you behavior at least in the context of having a conversation with someone. Learning how to direct a conversation will get you on your way to avoiding this huge common texting mistake. Here we go!

Here are a few things to keep in mind as you pay attention to who is directing the conversation:

When she sends a text with more than one question do you answer them all?

• Learn to direct the conversation by choosing which questions you respond to.
• Not answering all her questions will keep her interested and feel a need for more information.
• Choose which questions to answer and direct the conversation based on your goals.
• It is important in attraction for the man to lead and not the woman.
• It just happens to be human nature that she will cause you to follow her flow.
• Human nature gets in the way of attraction but with awareness you can get control back.

When she talks about several topics all in one text do you respond to them all?

• Maybe she will say in a text “I went shopping today and then went to the movies and out for food!” it is not uncommon for a guy to respond with something like “oh did you get anything nice? What movie did you see? Where did you go for dinner?”
• Many topics of conversation can be quite hard to follow when texting.
• Also responses like this do not provide her with the good feelings that inspire attraction.
• Instead try responding to just one topic.
• Choose the topic that you can work with best.
• Example: you could respond to the above text with “:D what did you buy me?!” or “We can’t be friends anymore if you didn’t see Inception!” or whatever else you can think of that is at least a little more exciting than just asking lots of boring questions in response.
• You will not only be able to guide the conversation topics by texting in this way but you will also avoid damaging the attraction between you by leading the flow instead of being lead.

As always play around with these ideas and become aware of how you respond to her and how she responds to you. Once you learn how to direct a conversation you will find that this will give you much more power over the conversation and avoids giving away your own power and sacrificing attraction.

Have any questions, comments or feedback about dealing with this common texting mistake feel free to leave a comment.
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For those of you still having difficulties with removing unattractive texting habits this should help you on your way to mastering how to text a girl you like. This concept is really straight forward but it always helps to look closely at the factors involved to fully understand why trying to have conversations over text is generally ineffective at building attraction. This post is about the common texting mistake of trying to have conversations over text messages.

How to Text a Girl You Like –Don’t Try to Have Conversations Over Text

Using texts to build attractions works so well mostly by using something called fractionation. Fractionation is when someone is put into an emotional state and comes out of it and each time you put them back in it is stronger than before. So in order to most efficiently employ this amazing technique we want to send short texts and focus those texts on getting her to experience an emotional state. For this reason and a few others you don’t want to be having a full conversation

As always I recommend paying extra attention to how she responds to the kinds of messages you send. Awareness and feedback allows for learning and changes to be made.

Key Points:

• Build attraction by fractionating emotional responses
• Send messages with a response value
• Minimize the work you have to do to create attraction by sending short texts
• Texting is not designed to have conversations over
• If you want to have a conversation in person or in a phone call is much better
• You don’t want her to think you just sit around texting her if she is actually doing something with her time
• Don’t forget to be aware of why you are texting
• She is not just a friend you are going to casually chat with if you just met
• You want her to like you the same why you like her
• In general you will display higher value by using short and flirty texts
• Having a conversation over texts may display a neediness and approval seeking

It may seem like there are times when it is not such a bad thing to have conversations over text. For example what if it seems like she is already into you and wants to text a lot? For all you know this could be her neediness for attention and that could be something you are not looking for in a girl. She might want your attention which by giving it up so easily and showing you have lots of time to text her may cause her to lose interest since she doesn’t have to work for it at that point. If someone likes something even a little once you pull it away and make it scarce the person will go crazy for it. If the cat wants the string and you pull the string the cat will chase it, but if the cat does not want to string pulling it away does nothing.

Hopefully this post has helped you reach a better understanding of this common texting mistake and how to avoid it while building intense attraction.

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Learning how to text a girl you like can sometimes be hard but with a push in the right direction you will surely get where you want to be. These principles can be so basic but unless you are really aware of them you are unlikely to make the fundamental changes to your behaviors that really cause attraction. This is common texting mistake that is so basic but it’s still really important. Texting is not designed to write books to people. It is to be on her mind and get her feeling good about you.

How to Text a Girl You Like –Don’t Send Long Messages

You want to be on her mind and you want it to be in a good way. When I first learned how to text a girl I was very skeptical that any of these principles really made a difference. If you really break down the interaction it becomes much clearer why they are so important. You never really know what someone is doing when you text them, if you send long texts to a girl who is busy with her friends she probably won’t just stop giving them attention to read everything you have to say or at least she may not even give it too much attention. She won’t want to respond to each part of your text if you are busy so a lot of it could be lost on her.

Here are a few things to keep in mind as you pay attention to the length of texts you are sending and receiving:

• When you sending texts are they longer than her responses?
• Your texts should generally be shorter than hers
• Are you trying to fit more than one message into a text?
• Usually a person will respond to the last thing (or just one thing) you say
• Do you want to respond to every part of a long text?
• Have you ever sent a long text with several funny messages and only gotten a response to one?
• Why not maximize your results by getting the most out of each great response one text at a time?
• If either of you are busy will you want to pay attention to long texts?
• Try sending short messages that she will want to respond to
• You don’t want her thinking you are just sitting around texting her

Although it may not seem like a big deal there are times when sending long messages can really be a big disadvantage in building attraction. Generally you are likely to get positive results by keeping your texts short and response evoking. While she may be sending long texts it does not mean you should send long texts too. By sending long texts too you can be giving away a great deal of your value since you don’t want her to think you don’t have much to do besides just sitting around texting her.

You have got to remember that attraction is a biological response. While it may seem nice to send her long messages it is feelings and response value that will get her attracted. Find what gives her good feelings by seeing what gets her to respond, hopefully in a positive or playful way.

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Knowing how to text a girl you like isn’t always easy. Theoretically it’s very easy to understand and learn but in reality there are a lot of difficult factors for you to learn to control and it takes practice. If you have read through my lessons then you are already on your way. Now I am going to help you learn how to stop being a nice guy and give you an even more in depth understanding to truly help you master how to text a girl you like.

How to Text a Girl You Like – How to Stop Being a Nice Guy

This does not mean being a jerk! I can never say this enough. Whenever I tell a girl I think it’s good advice for a guy to not be too nice she will usually say something like “whhhhattt?! I don’t want to date a jerk”. Then I describe what I mean by too nice. The guy will put her on a pedestal, sure that is fine sometimes, but he will do this to a girl he hardly knows. He treats her differently than he would anyone else, EVEN his friends! Without justification he lowers himself by giving everything he has to the girl; not literally emptying his bank accounts to her but he wants to be nice to her and ends up being too nice. After I describe what a “Nice Guy” is the girl usually immediately says something like “eeek I hate when guys are like that”. Every girl has met nice guys before and those nice guys usually make the mistake of being too nice and don’t even know.

In order to be a master in knowing how to text a girl you like the first step is being able to avoid being the nice guy. I have found one of the best ways to learn how to avoid being too nice is to be more aware of how you treat everyone and how you treat girls you like.

What is a “Nice Guy”?

• Believes that if they are good, giving, and caring, that they will get happiness, love and fulfillment in return
• They offer to do things for a girl they hardly know that they wouldn’t normally do for just anybody else they know
• They avoid conflict by withholding their opinions or even become agreeable with her when they don’t actually agree
• They try to fix and take care of her problems, they are drawn to trying to help
• They seek approval from others
• They try to hide their perceived flaws and mistakes
• They are always looking for the “right” way to do things
• They tend to analyze rather than feel
• They have difficulty making their needs a priority
• They are often emotionally dependant on their partner

It is so easy to lower your own value when you find a girl really attractive. It is natural to want her to like you and nice guys just happened to have been unconsciously trained as they grow up to act in these ways. It is not even all about what she has done to earn anything from you but if you truly want to be a good person and be nice in good ways however you must understand this kind of behavior inevitably turns girls off.

You may find as I found long ago that no matter how hard you try and how nice you are things just don’t seem to go your way and girls just don’t seem to like you. This is really an unfortunate situation. Many guys are victim to being a nice guy. While being a nice guy sounds like a good way to be in theory it is just as bad as being a jerk.

My story:

The first step for me was when I wanted to buy a girl I had recently met a gift to give her when we met for our first date. I told my friend, a girl, what I got for my date and that I thought she would think it was so cute. My friend told me straight out not to give it to her and asked me why I thought it was a good idea. I went over it again and again in my mind and I couldn’t think of any case where giving to someone was a bad thing. My friend explained to me that she had done nothing to earn this kind of treatment and the context of our date also did not contribute a good reason to give a gift. I had never seen what I had been shown that day and for the last two years I am very grateful that someone finally made me aware that I was also a nice guy. About a year after that even though I had improved a lot and moved far away from being a nice guy I came across a magical book that helped me learn so much more about the topic; what causes it, what it is, how to cure it. The book is amazing. It is called No More Mr. Nice Guy by Dr. Robert Glover.

There is a solution!

While the book No More Mr. Nice Guy gives a more in depth to help you stop being the nice guy. It includes an easy to follow solution The following is what worked for me I’m sure it will get you started in the right direction.

How to Stop Being a Nice Guy

• Become aware of what a nice guy is
• Read and reread the what is a nice guy points above
• Really identify what apply to you
• As you interact with people and girls pay attention to yourself doing each of these things
• Test out how it feels to move away from each of these behaviours
• Example: Instead of being agreeable try saying something like “Really?! Ice cream is your favorite desert?! You must have never tried cheesecake ”
• Really pay attention to how you interact with people and look for each of the nice guy behaviors!
• Over time you will start to develop a stronger personality and gain a deep understanding of how to be nice without being a nice guy and without being a jerk

This was one of the biggest steps in learning how to text a girl you like. I hope you found this information useful .

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If you are still having difficulties with knowing how to text a girl you like these tips may help. These tips in combination with what you have learned already will really help you maximize your results.

In this lesson I am going to share a few tips to help you on your way to always knowing what to text a girl you like. Once you already have a good understanding of the do’s and don’ts as well as some basic ability in flirting these tips will help you perfect your game.

How to Text a Girl You Like – Tips

When you and her are not together she is likely to be in a more logical state. So when you text her you must come off in a positive light. If you even seem needy she will not respond so positively. You live your own life and have your own things to do but that does not mean she does not cross your mind. This may be hard to grasp but you need to understand how she is thinking and how she will receive messages. Even if you are not needy and you do not think you are coming off as needy it is irrelevant since she may still see you as being needy.

• When apart she is likely to be in a logical mind state
• Understand how she is thinking and how she will take your message
• Understanding abundance
• Keep it fun and simple
• Give and take
• Use the right tone
• Send texts with high response value
• Be comfortable and in control
• Know what do you do if she doesn’t behave
• Don’t settle for less than you deserve
• Create closeness and comfort
• Know when should you text

I really hope you have enjoyed my posts so far. I encourage you to share any successes you may have as well as any good jokes you manage to come up with.

If you have any questions about what to text a girl you like feel free to ask in a comment.

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Knowing how to text a girl you like is powerful knowledge. You both might be perfect for each other but when it comes down to it communication can make or break it.

In this lesson we are going to cover flirting. This is one of the most useful sections on how to text a girl. This helps tie together all the do’s and don’ts in a fun and powerful way to get her really attracted to you and show her you are the man she is looking for. This section is worth reading and rereading if you really want to be successful and always know how to flirt with a girl over text.

How to Text a Girl You Like – Flirting

• Don’t be the “nice guy”
• Work in potential activities you can do together
• Give a high emotional charge then wait
• Provide social proof
• Display scarcity
• Create urgency
• Use the law of reciprocation
• Be mysterious
• Make it seem like she is pursuing you
• Show her you are the man
• Challenge her requests
• Role play and use role reversals
• Play with her words
• Master timing
• Make your immediate goal fun, nothing else
• Relate and connect
• Improve your understanding of women
• Know what to do when things go wrong
• Be patient and take your time
• Use smileys from time to time
• Keep it short and fun
• Tease her
• Use cocky humor

We have gone over a lot of really useful techniques on knowing what to say to a girl in a text message. These are great to go over and to get a feel for. Try applying a few then come back and try a few more until you get a hang of using all or any of them anytime you want. Have fun building attraction and getting great results with texting. Take it easy and don’t worry about the results. As you master communication skills and learn more about how to text a girl you like you will begin to see many improvements in your life.

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By now you have probably already made some good observations that will help you always know how to text a girl you like.

In this lesson I will help give you a better perspective that will greatly improve your chances for success. As you learn what works and what doesn’t you will notice a few fundamental changes in your beliefs that will have really positive effects on your outcomes with girls and always knowing how to text a girl you like.

How to Text a Girl You Like – Why Are You Texting?

First you will need to identify what you are looking for out of your texting experiences. Why do you need to know why you are texting? Well depending on the results you are looking for, you may focus your communication towards getting those specific results. You wouldn’t want to get a girl you hate to want to see you every day. You wouldn’t want to get a girl you just want to have a fling with to fall in love with you or you could end with a terrible mess. That doesn’t mean if you want a fling that you would be unable to have a girl become attracted to you without her being in love; it simply means that you should know what results you are looking for and what you can do to improve the likelihood without creating a mess or having to be some huge asshole who people would look down on. I am not trying to teach you some kind of magic trick, only the simple truth that girls look for a quality guy and that you can be that quality guy.

There are four main focuses:

One night stand – Mostly sexual tension.

Fling – A combination of attraction and sexual tension

Friend – Mostly connection

Girlfriend – A combination of Attraction, connection and sexual tension

I will not go into a great deal about each of the four main focuses right now but I will briefly define each of the three “forces” involved. Sexual tension is anything that will make her think about sex. It could be really vague but you know her mind will start to fill all the holes with all sorts of sexual content or even as direct as asking where was the most exciting place you have had sex? It works like magic, even if someone resists the thoughts and urges that will only make them build up stronger and stronger until it is time to just let go and enjoy the ecstasy. Connection when you are looking to settle things down and create a strong comforting bond, connection is where it’s at. This usually consists of just being playful and using humor and status with your texts while mixing in things about yourself or some questions for her too from time to time. Attraction is anything that makes her want to see you and spend time with you in a more romantic but not sexual kind of way like wanting to go to the movies together for example. Hopefully you are starting to get the idea of each of the main focuses and the forces involved.

The Main Goal – Be on Her Mind

Texting works great because it allows you to gain a lot of power with much less fear of embarrassment or mistakes. You may not have noticed but guys really change a lot around girls they like. They start to act nicer and try not to offend them. They become apologetic and worried about tiny things that never matter with anyone else. Guys often give the girl a higher status by lowering their own. Just being aware that these changes happen will start to give you a huge advantage in getting passed the little things that can have negative effects on your interactions with girls you find attractive. As you learn more about the principles behind all of this content on how to text a girl you will also start to bring out the high status in yourself in aspects of life besides just texting. If you tried to say some of these things in front of her or her friends in person and you weren’t already comfortable with it then, from my experience, it has been much scarier than just sending an edgy text. Texting allows you to apply a lot of these great strategies to get you on her mind and to start building attraction. If you are interested in someone even a little, the more you have them on your mind the more you will want to see them.

Key Points:

• Shift your perspective to improve chances for success
• Identify what you want to get out of your texting experiences
• Focus your communication towards getting those specific results
• Girls look for a quality guy, you can be that quality guy!
• Four Focuses: one night stand, fling, friend, girlfriend
• Three “forces” involved: sexual tension, connection, attraction
• Texting gives you a lot of power
• Guys often give the girl a higher status by lowering their own
• Be on her mind in good ways

Thanks for reading this lesson on how to text a girl you like.

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