If you are having trouble getting girls to text you back then this post is just what you’re looking for. One of the most powerful principles you will ever learn for interacting with people and mastering how to text a girl you like is the concept of high response value. This is by far the biggest common texting mistake guys make. The concept of high response value is rarely taught in a direct enough way to allow people to use it practically. I am going to teach you the secret power of high response value; when you remember how you lived before you will be baffled as to why you never used this simple principle.
How to text a girl you like – How to Get Her to Text Back
Does she wait hours before responding? Or worse, when you text her does she not even respond? Have you ever wished she was super responsive to you? Have you ever wanted to be the kinda guy that she just craves your next response? Understanding and applying the concept of high response value will evolve your texting game to a whole new level. You may be wondering what exactly is high response value? When you are texting or talking with someone the message’s response value is its ability to get you to respond. There has likely been a time when you have gotten a text you had no idea how to respond to or just didn’t even feel like responding to so you ignored it. Likewise there have been texts you couldn’t ignore if you wanted to. We are going to look at what factors are involved in getting her to text back.
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The great thing about understanding this principle of attraction is that not only will you have a much higher ability to get her to be responsive to you but you will also become aware of the low response value aspects of your texts and be able to reduce them after a little practice. This also benefits both of you by creating more exciting interactions.
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Here are a few things to pay attention to as you learn about the factors involved in response value:
Emotional value – anything that a person enjoys that is emotionally stimulating.
High emotional value example – say you met a girl last night and got her number the next day you could send a fun and flirty text like “I met this really dorky girl last night, she was kinda cute though” obviously refering to her while being indirect aswell.
Low emotional value example – “hey whats up?” or “hey we met last night, did you have fun?”, both of these provide little emotional value. If she already likes you she may respond but otherwise you will likely just come off as just some guy she met.
High Response Value Basics:
- send texts with high emotional value
- avoid sending texts that have low emotional value – do you want to talk to someone who just responds with low value texts like “lol” to all of your texts? I know I don’t, she won’t either.
- after giving emotional value you can guide the conversation by doing a take away or asking a question.
- You do not have to follow with a take away or question but it helps balance the conversation and keep her wondering if she has won you over.
- note: a take away is when you show disinterest (often used right before or right after providing value). ex classic high value push and pull “your cute, its too bad you can’t cook!”
- 1. provide emotional value 2. (optional) take away or question then repeat
- If she provides more emotional value than you, you follow up by providing even more than her.
- Lead the conversation and build intense attraction by always saying the highest emotional value text last. (its ok to let her end witht he highest emotional value text last sometimes ie don’t go crazy over the odd few here and there)
- When you have built up value use take aways and questions to balance to conversation.
Combos and Chaining – keep up the conversation by doing one of 3 things:
Furthering the topic: Her – “i love to watch horror movies” (her providing value) You – “oh me too! my favorite is toy story 
” (you provide value, setting up for a joke) Her – “that’s a kids movie not a horror!” (her providing value by playing into the joke) You – “those toys are alive! its scary 
” (you provide value with your funny joke!) Her – “you are ridiculous” (she provides value but not more value than you have provided so you still maintain the lead)
Coming up with a related topic: Her – “and I would name my puppy Ralph!” you start a new topic with “that reminds me of my crazy uncle Ralph, one time he and I…”
Start an entirely new topic: (preferably one that you know already provides lots of value) Her – “yep so that was good” (not much value or content to respond to) You – “You wouldn’t believe what my crazy uncle Ralph and i did the other day…”
The main goal here is to avoid those normal go no where attraction killing conversations. Instead by following this basic idea you will be building incredible attraction. Since there is so much to cover on this topic there will be later posts to expand on these ideas but for now this lays a great foundation for getting her to respond to you more often and with better results.
As always play around with these ideas and become aware of how you respond to her and how she responds to you.
Have fun learning how to get her to be super responsive to you while building intense attraction.
Thanks for reading this post on how to text a girl you like.
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