How to Get a Girl’s Attention

Those who do exceptionally well with creating attraction truly know how to get a girl’s attention. If you want to know how to text a girl you like then you will really benefit by avoiding the common texting mistake of not including the girl in your responses. Many guys make the really simple mistake of not relating with and involving the girl in their communication. Get to know her, find out what you have in common and involve her. I am going to show you how to get a girl’s attention.

How to Text a Girl You Like – How to Get a Girl’s Attention

Have you ever talked to a girl and you didn’t know what to say? Have you ever tried talking to a girl but couldn’t hold her attention? Do you find yourself telling stories or talking about things that just don’t seem to relate to the girl even if they are good stories or topics of conversation? Even being an interesting person doesn’t guarantee that you will be able to hold her attention or even create attraction. There have likely been times when you have talked to someone who was not appealing to you at all until you found out you had some really awesome thing in common. You have likely experienced a time when even if there was someone who at first you paid little attention to until she started talking about you or showing genuine interest in what you are about. It is not just about having a person’s focus or being interesting, it is about having the person really want to give you their attention and to appeal to their interest. I am going to help you learn the best way to get a girl’s attention so you can keep her interested in you.

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How to Get a Girl’s Attention:

1. First create attraction and build rapport by being fun, confident, and displaying high value traits.
2. As you talk make sure to search for and pay attention to common interests, beliefs, and favorite activities.
3. When you find highly relevant topics that you both love then you can both show genuine interest and start creating an intense bond with each other through the topic you already love.
4. Do not pretend to be into something she is into.
5. Does she respond well to the topic of discussion?
6. If you love video games and can talk about video games all day but she doesn’t find that appealing then save those conversations for your friends who do enjoy it.
7. You don’t have to pretend you are not interested in those things but if it is obvious there are better topics of conversation then you may want to find them.
8. It is important to get to know her and to involve her in your responses.

Keep in mind that you want to evoke emotion and inspire good feelings in her that she will relate to you.

Involve her in your responses:

• While the above is not necessary to apply the idea of involving her in your response, combining these two ideas will give you powerful results.
• It really helps give you response value when your message has to do with her.
• Consider this example: You: “can you cook?” Her: “I make the best kraft dinner ever!”
• What are some possible responses?
• 1. You:  “… that’s not cooking”
• 2. You:  “I love kraft dinner”
• 3. You:  “I’m so good at making KD”
• 4. You: “There is no way your KD is better than mine! ”
• Response 1 could be involving her but probably not in a good way since it may come off as looking down on a skill she is enthusiastic about.
• Response 1 could be playful if you send the message in the right way possibly saying something like “Oh, I didn’t mean read words on a box, I meant actually cook ” more along the lines of playful teasing rather than criticizing.
• Response 2 and 3 do not involve her.
• They also don’t provide much response value.
• Response 4 is about the same as response 3 except that it now involves her in the context of your text.
• You challenge her in a playful way that can also imply response 2 showing your shared enthusiasm for KD.
• This is likely to have huge response value because she is now very involved in the response.
• This particular example also shows how the above idea of finding common ground can create a lot of enthusiasm and fun with a topic that may not be so exciting to just any two people.

The absolute best way to get a girl’s attention is to find what she really responds to with good feelings and genuinely combine that with you. When you get more practice with being aware of these kinds of principles in your interactions you will gain much more power over the results you will be getting. Master how to get a girl’s attention and you will be well on your way to mastering how to text a girl you like.

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