By now you have probably already made some good observations that will help you always know how to text a girl you like.
In this lesson I will help give you a better perspective that will greatly improve your chances for success. As you learn what works and what doesn’t you will notice a few fundamental changes in your beliefs that will have really positive effects on your outcomes with girls and always knowing how to text a girl you like.
How to Text a Girl You Like – Why Are You Texting?
First you will need to identify what you are looking for out of your texting experiences. Why do you need to know why you are texting? Well depending on the results you are looking for, you may focus your communication towards getting those specific results. You wouldn’t want to get a girl you hate to want to see you every day. You wouldn’t want to get a girl you just want to have a fling with to fall in love with you or you could end with a terrible mess. That doesn’t mean if you want a fling that you would be unable to have a girl become attracted to you without her being in love; it simply means that you should know what results you are looking for and what you can do to improve the likelihood without creating a mess or having to be some huge asshole who people would look down on. I am not trying to teach you some kind of magic trick, only the simple truth that girls look for a quality guy and that you can be that quality guy.
There are four main focuses:
One night stand – Mostly sexual tension.
Fling – A combination of attraction and sexual tension
Friend – Mostly connection
Girlfriend – A combination of Attraction, connection and sexual tension
I will not go into a great deal about each of the four main focuses right now but I will briefly define each of the three “forces” involved. Sexual tension is anything that will make her think about sex. It could be really vague but you know her mind will start to fill all the holes with all sorts of sexual content or even as direct as asking where was the most exciting place you have had sex? It works like magic, even if someone resists the thoughts and urges that will only make them build up stronger and stronger until it is time to just let go and enjoy the ecstasy. Connection when you are looking to settle things down and create a strong comforting bond, connection is where it’s at. This usually consists of just being playful and using humor and status with your texts while mixing in things about yourself or some questions for her too from time to time. Attraction is anything that makes her want to see you and spend time with you in a more romantic but not sexual kind of way like wanting to go to the movies together for example. Hopefully you are starting to get the idea of each of the main focuses and the forces involved.
The Main Goal – Be on Her Mind
Texting works great because it allows you to gain a lot of power with much less fear of embarrassment or mistakes. You may not have noticed but guys really change a lot around girls they like. They start to act nicer and try not to offend them. They become apologetic and worried about tiny things that never matter with anyone else. Guys often give the girl a higher status by lowering their own. Just being aware that these changes happen will start to give you a huge advantage in getting passed the little things that can have negative effects on your interactions with girls you find attractive. As you learn more about the principles behind all of this content on how to text a girl you will also start to bring out the high status in yourself in aspects of life besides just texting. If you tried to say some of these things in front of her or her friends in person and you weren’t already comfortable with it then, from my experience, it has been much scarier than just sending an edgy text. Texting allows you to apply a lot of these great strategies to get you on her mind and to start building attraction. If you are interested in someone even a little, the more you have them on your mind the more you will want to see them.
Key Points:
- Shift your perspective to improve chances for success
- Identify what you want to get out of your texting experiences
- Focus your communication towards getting those specific results
- Girls look for a quality guy, you can be that quality guy!
- Four Focuses: one night stand, fling, friend, girlfriend
- Three “forces” involved: sexual tension, connection, attraction
- Texting gives you a lot of power
- Guys often give the girl a higher status by lowering their own
- Be on her mind in good ways
Thanks for reading this lesson on how to text a girl you like.
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Monday I met this super babe. I did some of the things you recommended. Worked great.
Awesome!
I hope to add a lot more depth to my content to further expand each of the bullet points with more detailed explanations as well as some examples in action to give an even greater understanding and better results.
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At the moment my site is only about 2 weeks old, it only gets about 5-10 visits a day. I’m sure these numbers will go up once I improve/add content and begin the promotion process.
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Here’s a simple way to remember an effective text: Short and Sweet. Sparse. The three S’s
As someone who typically texts way too much, I can see the value in this article. I probably want to create mostly “flings” or maybe a friend/fling type situation, so I need attraction, sexual chemistry, and a LITTLE connection. Interesting.
dont text. pick up the phone. seriously.